The Lap DanceSex Position
Seated facing away.
The Lap Dance is a seated position where one partner sits (often on a chair, sofa or the edge of a bed) and the other sits on their lap facing away. It is relaxed, intimate and playful, and lets the seated partner wrap their arms around the other.
📋 How to do it
- 1The partner who will be seated sits comfortably on a chair or sofa with feet flat on the floor.
- 2The other partner sits on their lap facing away and leans back against their chest.
- 3The seated partner wraps arms around their waist or chest and keeps their back supported.
- 4Rock or move gently together at a relaxing pace.
✨ Tips for comfort & connection
Lean forward or backward to change the depth and angle. A chair without arms gives more freedom to move, and the seated partner can use their arms to hug, hold or stroke. The slow, relaxed pace is the point, so enjoy it.
⚠️ Safety & comfort
Make sure the chair or sofa is sturdy and will not slip on the floor. If the seated partner's knees or back feel strained, add a cushion or change chairs.
💡 Tips
Relaxing pace.
✅ Benefits
The lap dance angle creates arousing visual and physical connection. Control stays primarily with the seated top partner.
🔄 Variations
Lean forward or backward to change depth and angle. Use a chair without arms for more movement freedom.
🎯 Best For
Couples who enjoy chair sex and the reverse cowgirl sensation. Great for those who enjoy controlling depth and angle.
❓ Frequently asked questions
What furniture works best?
A sturdy armless chair or a firm sofa at a comfortable height; avoid wheeled or wobbly chairs.
How is the Lap Dance different from reverse cowgirl?
It is seated and upright, so it feels cozier, while reverse cowgirl is usually done lying down.