The SeesawSex Position
Opposite facing seated rocking.
The Seesaw is a seated, face-to-face position where partners sit opposite each other with legs extended or intertwined and take turns leaning back and forward, like a playground seesaw. It is playful and rhythmic and needs little strength.
📋 How to do it
- 1Sit facing each other on a soft surface, with legs extended or crossed over each other's.
- 2Hold hands or forearms for support.
- 3One partner leans back while the other leans forward, then switch, creating a rocking motion.
- 4Keep the rhythm slow and steady, and adjust how far you lean.
✨ Tips for comfort & connection
Holding hands or forearms gives stability and lets you control how far you lean. A relaxed, steady rhythm matters more than big movements, and cushions behind the back can help.
⚠️ Safety & comfort
Do not lean back farther than your core can support, and avoid sudden pulls on each other's arms. Stop if your lower back feels strained.
💡 Tips
Synchronized motion.
✅ Benefits
The opposite-facing rock creates unusual mutual stimulation. Both partners can control and respond to each other's movement.
🔄 Variations
Vary the speed and direction of rocking. Try alternating who initiates the rocking motion.
🎯 Best For
Playful couples who enjoy interactive, back-and-forth dynamics. The rocking creates a fun, synchronized connection.
❓ Frequently asked questions
Is the Seesaw good for beginners?
Yes, it is playful and easy to adjust, though it needs some core control.
What if one of us is much heavier?
Lean less, and use cushions or a wall so neither partner has to hold much weight.