The ButterflySex Position

One lies on bed edge, other stands.

The Butterfly has one partner lying on the edge of a bed, table or other raised surface while the other stands in front of them. The raised surface lines your bodies up at a comfortable height, takes weight off both partners and makes it easy to adjust angle and speed.

📋 How to do it

1. 1The partner lying down rests their back on the bed edge with hips close to the edge and knees bent or feet resting on the partner's body.
2. 2The standing partner stands between their legs, with knees slightly bent for a steady base.
3. 3Hold the legs, hips or waist for support and adjust the height of the lying partner's hips with a pillow if needed.
4. 4Move at a steady rhythm and change angle by raising or lowering the legs.

✨ Tips for comfort & connection

The right furniture height makes all the difference: a bed that is too low can strain the standing partner's back, while a higher surface or a pillow under the hips helps. The lying partner can raise their legs higher or rest them on the standing partner's shoulders for a different angle.

✅ Benefits

Allows for very deep penetration. The edge of the bed creates a unique angle not achievable otherwise. The standing partner has great leverage.

🔄 Variations

Adjust bed height or use different furniture. The lying partner can raise legs higher or rest them on partner's shoulders.

❓ Frequently asked questions