The Pile DriverSex Position
Legs pushed back to shoulders.
The Pile Driver is an advanced, high-intensity position where the partner on the bottom lies on their back with their legs pushed back toward their head or shoulders while the other partner is above. It creates a very deep angle and demands flexibility and care from both partners.
📋 How to do it
- 1The partner on the bottom lies on their back and slowly draws their legs up and back toward the shoulders.
- 2Place a pillow under the lower back or hips to support the lifted position and reduce strain.
- 3The partner above supports their own weight on their arms and the other's legs rest against or over their shoulders.
- 4Move slowly and carefully, easing off at the first sign of discomfort.
✨ Tips for comfort & connection
A pillow under the lower back makes the position more comfortable, and the legs can rest on the other partner's shoulders instead of being pushed all the way back. Go gradually and warm up with easier positions first.
⚠️ Safety & comfort
This position places strain on the neck, back and hips, so it is not suitable for people with back or neck issues. Never force the legs further than is comfortable, and stop immediately if you feel pain or pressure.
💡 Tips
Extreme depth warning.
✅ Benefits
Achieves the deepest possible penetration. The position is visually powerful and creates intense internal pressure.
🔄 Variations
Place a pillow under the lower back for support. Legs can rest on the giving partner's shoulders.
🎯 Best For
Those who crave extremely deep penetration. Requires good flexibility. Not suitable for those with back or neck issues.
❓ Frequently asked questions
Is the Pile Driver safe?
It is intense and carries a risk of strain, so only try it if you are flexible, warm up first and go slowly.
How can we make it more comfortable?
Support the lower back with a pillow and rest the legs on the shoulders rather than pushing them all the way back.