The TrapezeSex Position
Legs hooked over arms.
The Trapeze is an advanced position where the partner on the bottom has their legs lifted and hooked over the other partner's arms or elbows, a bit like hanging from a trapeze. It is playful and close, and asks for strength from the supporting partner.
📋 How to do it
- 1The partner on the bottom lies on their back near the edge of a bed or on a soft surface.
- 2The other partner kneels or stands in front and lifts the legs, resting them over their arms or in the crook of the elbows.
- 3Hold the legs securely and keep your own back straight.
- 4Move slowly, adjusting leg height to change the angle.
✨ Tips for comfort & connection
A pillow under the lower back or hips supports the lifted partner. Keep the lift modest at first, and agree on a signal if anything feels uncomfortable. Short stretches are plenty.
⚠️ Safety & comfort
The lifted partner's lower back and the supporting partner's arms and back can strain, so keep it short and well supported. Stop if legs slip or anything pinches.
💡 Tips
Close connection.
✅ Benefits
The leg-over-arm position creates a very deep and tight sensation. Allows the giving partner great leverage and control.
🔄 Variations
Adjust how high the legs are hooked for different depths. The bottom partner can push on the thighs to control depth.
🎯 Best For
Those seeking deep penetration and a feeling of being lifted. Requires some flexibility in the receiving partner's hips.
❓ Frequently asked questions
Is the Trapeze hard to hold?
It needs arm and back strength from the supporting partner, so use short stretches and pillows.
Who should avoid it?
People with back or hip issues should be careful or skip it.