The Upstanding CitizenSex Position
Wall support standing lift.
The Upstanding Citizen is a standing position where one partner is supported against a wall, often lifted slightly with legs around the other's waist. The wall carries much of the weight, making it more manageable than a free-standing lift.
📋 How to do it
- 1Stand close with the partner who will be supported leaning back against a sturdy wall.
- 2The supported partner places their arms around the other's shoulders and lifts slightly, with legs resting around the waist or on a low step.
- 3The standing partner bends their knees slightly, holds the hips or thighs, and keeps their back straight.
- 4Keep movements small and controlled, and lower down when your legs tire.
✨ Tips for comfort & connection
The wall is essential: it takes weight and adds stability. Use a low step for the supported partner if the lift is too much, and wear grippy footwear or stand on a mat.
⚠️ Safety & comfort
Lifting puts load on the back and knees and carries a risk of slips. Use a rough, stable wall, keep it short and stop at the first sign of shaking.
💡 Tips
Engage leg muscles.
✅ Benefits
The standing lift creates excitement and demonstrates physical strength. Allows for penetration at unique angles.
🔄 Variations
Use a wall for support and stability. The lifted partner can wrap legs around for security.
🎯 Best For
Physically strong couples who enjoy athletic intimacy. Requires significant upper body strength from the lifting partner.
❓ Frequently asked questions
Is it easier than the Mountain Climber?
Yes, because the wall supports much of the weight, though it still needs leg strength.
What if we are different heights?
A low step or bent knees from the taller partner evens things out.